ToME: the Tales of Maj'Eyal

Or at the very least give the option of disabling them. Especially hitting a stat cap gets irritating as one gets constantly reminded that the stat won't go higher until next level, but finding juggleable talents is also more inconvenient than it needs to be what with the constant reminder messages. The stat being grayed out/talent not being degraded is plenty indication to the player that that particular action won't work, no need to rub his face in it.

And make things even more confusing for new players? No.

If it annoys you that much perhaps a toggle in the options is needed. I've never been bothered by it personally.