ToME: the Tales of Maj'Eyal

I want to send my friend my save file so he can check my guy and tell me how i can improve him but i cant seem to find where my save it. Where might i find it?

For me they're at C:\{User Folder}\T-Engine\4.0\tome\save. Not sure if it will vary on your computer, though.

If you use an online profile, you can send your profile link to your friend to check your characters and stats

Mine is: http://te4.org/users/kurzedmetal
In the "Character" tab you can check the stats of my last (and current) characters.